Las Vegas Spiritual Life Coach Jaclyn Costello

Be-Do-Have…not Have-Do-Be

by Jaclyn Costello on October 12, 2013

Many people believe if they “have” a thing (i.e. the ideal man or woman, the perfect body, loads of money, etc.) then they will finally “do” a thing (give their lover tons of attention, flex proudly at the gym, quit their job and start a new business) which will allow them to “be” a thing (the ideal husband, sexy, an innovative entrepreneur.)

In actuality, these people are reversing the Be-Do-Have paradigm.

First you must BE the thing you desire. Then, you start to DO things from this place of “being”. And soon you discover that what you are doing ends up bringing you all the things you’ve always wanted to HAVE.

Enjoy the process!

{ 2 comments… read them below or add one }

James Joseph Brown October 24, 2013 at 2:54 pm

Wonderful words of encouragement. I love the illustration!


Caroline T. August 18, 2014 at 11:50 pm

Infograph is great. I’m printing this out today 🙂


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